Unfortunately, any mind work on deconditioning will only take us so far: “you cannot remove a thorn with a thorn” as the Buddhists say. Learned behaviors are often a source of false security and self-limitation. In other words, behaviors we have not been taught growing up, so deconditioning is necessary. To stay on the path we must trust, live in the present, and let go of fear. Then, one day, the ego-mind takes back its throne, doubt arises and the magical path vanishes. The willingness to not resist whatever life is putting on the road determines how long the ride will last. For most people, this higher intelligence only seems to manifest when their life flows: important meetings happen, synchronicities lead to a new path and something mysterious seems to be pulling the strings. Lennon doesn’t say we shouldn’t make plans, but that the true experience of being alive is beyond those plans, and “happens” to us.Īt first view, this seems to negate any personal will, since the right answer to life would be to embrace it instead of trying to direct it, but it might just be that free will should be redirected from the content of our lives to its approach: Instead of using our free will to decide what should come next, we’d use it to choose between ego or letting go, between a life ruled by our mind or a life in tune with a higher intelligence. Many of us would like to have a peaceful ride, enjoy the present moment, yet we can’t help but make future plans so we feel secure, or we spend time digging on past hurts. This famous saying from John Lennon reflects a paradox in our lives. “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
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